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Is Honesty Really the Best Policy?

Do you have someone in your life that no matter the circumstance, always keeps it real? You may be going to them looking for comfort and instead they tell you that they actually understand why someone is upset with  you?

How dare they take the side of your opponent!

My bestfriend and I do this to each other all the time and you know what? Neither of us get upset about it. I believe that a TRUE friend will always be honest with you, they will help you see situations from a different perspective, and they tell you what you NEED to hear instead of what you WANT to hear.

Sometimes – actually most of the time readings work this way too. One of my early client’s seemed to be enjoying her reading – I told her exactly what her deceased husband looked like, specific messages he had for her, and even the pet-name he called her. Everything was going absolutely fantastic until he told her it was okay for her to move on.

“No. That can’t be right, I will never move on.”

All of a sudden my client (very nice lady) was flustered, upset, and ready for her reading to be over. I understood and I tried my very best to let her know that his message was coming from the most loving place possible, but she didn’t want to hear it.

I have been lucky that so far that was my only client to get upset at what spirit had to say…because I have delivered some pretty blunt messages from spirit! Just the other night a client’s guide’s kept giving her the same message over and over and over. At one point I apologized because I felt like their message was a little harsh.

“C’mon spirit, cut the lady a break! “

“They weren’t being harsh, they were giving me exactly what I needed to hear. The messages you just gave me are things my friend’s and family have been telling me for YEARS. I understand what I need to do, I’ve known what I need to do, I just never DO it. Now I will.

This reading has helped me a lot and honestly, I am a lot less stressed out than when our call first started. I am going to start doing the things they said…I have too. I have to do it for me and I have to do it for my daughter.”

Thankful for such an open minded and caring client, I reflected on similar readings where people could have easily told me they weren’t having it. I am grateful for the loving but truthful messages that spirit delivers, because sometimes they change our lives. Having an outsider’s perspective on something is sometimes just what we need to get ourselves motivated again.

Spirit knows us better than we know ourselves. They know every thought we have and every decision we’ve made; they even know the decisions we are going to make. Our higher-self likes to tell us what we have been feeling and how to handle a situation. Spirit guides usually give us the guidance and insight to take with us throughout life. Loved ones might talk about the past and how we can learn, grow, and heal from it.

Like a bestfriend, spirit isn’t afraid to tell it like it is, but they always tell it with love.

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