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Crossing Over

Have you ever heard someone say “she went into the light”? As a child I was taught that if you’re good you will go to Heaven when you die and if you’re bad you will go somewhere else. Well I do believe that when you die your spirit goes somewhere but it’s not as cut and dry as you would think.

During a reading I had someone come through that needed some help crossing over, since I was fairly new to all of this I was very hesitant. The medium I was on the phone with explained to me that sometimes spirits get stuck on Earth and just need a little help crossing over.

When a person dies unexpectedly they can become confused and they may not even know they are stuck here; this can be very frustrating for them! If someone dies of a self-inflicted death, they may be angry and feel guilty and thus become stuck. Another reason a spirit gets stuck is because they simply don’t know how to cross over. I have found that those who do not believe in a higher energy have a more difficult time. This was true for my grandfather, he was a very scientific man and didn’t believe there was a higher power. When I was connected with him he said he was in the dark, he was alone, and he was very scared. He eventually crossed over but he had a few things to learn first.

Not all spirits cross over immediately either, I’ve heard multiple times that they still have some loose ends to tie up. This could be visiting a family member they haven’t seen in a long time, comforting grieving loved ones, or simply taking their time. It’s their choice to cross over and they can pick the timing.

Helping spirit cross over 

I’ve helped quite a few spirits crossover now and every time it’s been pretty much the same. I reassure them that it’s okay for them to go, I tell them they are loved, I tell them it’s okay to forgive themselves for whatever it is that is holding them here. I call in their guides and ask them for assistance and sometimes (depending on who it is) I ask my guides and loved ones to help assist in their transition.

If it doesn’t work, that’s okay too! I had one spirit that kept visiting and I kept trying; he was always so angry! I eventually told him that if he was going to accept my help then fine but if not he was not welcome anymore…he FINALLY accepted my help and I am proud to say he is a much happier camper now. Told ya so!

So let’s recap real quick!

  1. Reassure them it is okay to cross over, there is nothing but love on the other side!

  2. Tell them they are loved by many and remind them to love themselves!

  3. Call in support for them (and for you)!

  4. Feel their joy and thank everyone that was involved in the process!

  5. Pat yourself on the back, good job!

So there ya have it folks, a little tidbit on getting them to the other side!

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